“I spent two years in juvenile lock-up and later spent four years in Folsom State Prison as a debt collector and gang enforcer. Reading this book gave me the same feelings of suffocation as I get waking up from nightmares of being back in prison. The details of this book have a ring of truth to them that most books on prison life can’t come close to.”
-Anonymous from California
“I spent three years in a Religious Troubled Teen program. While the details of how the program ran are different, this book captures the mentalities like nothing else I have ever read.”
-Kate from Idaho
“I went to a troubled teen program and ended up with an 11-year-old surrogate little sister. I can’t imagine doing it with a four-year-old. I saw so much of myself in Vanessa and how she protected Jess. The “Letters from Home” chapter broke my heart in a way no other book ever has.”
-Robin from Alabama
“I read this book three months after sending my daughter to a troubled teen program. I read this book in one night and was on a plane to get my daughter out the very next day.”
-Mimi from Boston
“The program I went to 12 years ago wasn’t nearly this bad, but it was only after my mother read this book that we were actually able to talk about what she put me through. I think we now have a shot at a relationship.”
-Juliette from Vermont
"Dear Vanessa,
I have just finished reading your book, and I must say it is very powerful and emotional. The first two chapters, as well as the ones where Ms. Rawlings arrives, are definitely the most difficult to read. On chapter two, I had to stop a couple of times due to the nature of the punishments. I think what makes the book so powerful and horrifying is the realization that everything occurred in the real world; it was not made up. Considering how long this place existed and how many girls have come out of it completely broken, both mentally and physically, is absolutely heartbreaking. The scenes of torture are also very well described. I cannot even imagine how difficult it was to retrace all the memories and put them on paper. The scenes are written in a way that I can feel as if I am one of the girls observing the punishments, which seriously affects the readers. In short, this book has opened my eyes to a lot of things I did not even consider and has definitely changed the way I look at books.
This is not the type of book I would normally pick up to read just for pleasure; however, once I started reading it, I could not stop. I finished it within a few days, and I can assure you that most of my thoughts revolved only around this book for these past few days. It is definitely overpowering and magnetizing. My favorite part, I guess, were the chapters with Mr. S, as they show how you slowly learned what “love” is and how you gained a family. But I love how they also portray how you struggled with adjusting from that “tough love” to this new, normal love. I also really liked Chapter 13. I was crying like a baby, especially while reading Jess’s and Beth’s letters. I honestly could not think of any better way to finish this book. Sometimes, something you would never even consider picking up to read can turn out to be one of the most meaningful and powerful books you have ever read."
-AK from Florida
“I
was 12 when I was sent to this program. I started at the tail end of the events
of Vanessa’s book. I never met Ericka, and while I didn’t know Vanessa well,
she was my intake buddy for my first few days of intake. As short as she was,
she scared the hell out of me. She was not someone to be messed with – even the
staff gave her a wide berth. Then she was just gone, and no one would talk
about it. The Guardians were disbanded shortly after Vanessa left, but the
rumors about them and what they did were epic. Stories about them were banned
very early in my time. Until I read these books, I thought they were just
legends. Learning about what went on during those years explains so much of
what I went through. My three wishes are: I wish you didn’t sugarcoat so much
of it; I really wish you talked more about the religious aspects; and I really,
really wish you talked about how the program ended. I was there when it ended,
and all I know is that suddenly we were put on a plane to go home and never
allowed to talk about it.”
- Ellie from
Florida
“I worked five years at
a ranch for troubled youth. In this book, I saw almost every staff person I
ever worked with and the majority of the kids as well. Where most of the
first-person accounts from this industry treat the staff as villains and the
kids as innocent victims, this book showed the range of staff and students in a
way I have never before seen. I only wish we had a leader like Mr. S and a
group like the Guardians. Then maybe we could have done better by those kids.
Our leader wasn’t quite as bad as Ms Rawlings, but she wasn’t far off.”
-Bobby from
Colorado
"I've never read
two books like these. These women had such markedly different perspectives on
what went on. These books chronicle just how good people can go mad with power
in the right situation, how hard it is to keep that in check, and how systems
can fall apart. The copious asides sprinkled throughout the book hint at just
how much more there is to the story beyond what was told. Truly a great study
on the human experience."
- Sara from Reddit
“It’s so rare these days
to find stories of regular, normal girls doing extraordinary things that you
can actually relate to. While I never went to a program like this, my parents
threatened to send me to military school on a regular. I could relate to almost
everything Ericka wrote about, and I could see myself in every situation doing
exactly what she did.”
-Maddie from
Massachusetts